Things are not going well for my mom.

[imanamerican63]

Things have taken a turn for the worse. She is having trouble breathing on her own and oxygen is not good and heart rate is high. She’s very confused and doesn’t realize what is going on around her. They moved her to the hospital for further evaluation. But it’s not looking good.

Please keep her in your thoughts.

[Nanuke]

1. I am sorry to learn of this. I am beaming good vibes out to you. Take care.

[alwaysinasnit]

2. ...

[SheltieLover]

3. Healing vibes on the way to you both

[onethatcares]

4. hoping for the best outcome for you both

Peace

[MustLoveBeagles]

5. I'm sorry to hear this

Sending healing vibes.

[Doodley]

6. I hope it is something she can soon get over. My wife and I just got over pneumonia and bronchitus. Best thoughts.

[malaise]

7. Sending hugs

and a Happy Mothers’ Day greeting

[mercuryblues]

8. Hugs to you.

Keep your strength up to help your Mom through this.

[Beacool]

9. I'm so sorry.

I hope that your mom recovers.

[highplainsdem]

10. Sending healing vibes for her, and hugs for you.

[EndlessWire]

11. I'm praying for you and her.

It's better that she is in the hospital being attended, if she passes. At some point, they will come to you and ask to make her a DNR. Then you'll know more what they think. You don't have to let her go without a fight. Do what you need to do for her, for you. I think that the system is prejudiced against older folks. Make them do their jobs, but be calm. Be gentle.

Don't be surprised if you step out to restore yourself, only to find that she passed during this time. Take care of yourself, and if this happens, don't beat yourself up. Who knows, you might get lucky and be able to bring her home. Don't send her to a nursing home. If you make her a DNR, get a copy and put it on your refrigerator. You'll need that.

Taking care of an invalid at home is one of the hardest things you'll ever do. Rally your resources. Meanwhile, we are sending prayers to you and her in the hopes that this isn't her time.

Take care.

[Meowmee]

12. So sorry 😢

Sending hugs etc.

[arthritisR_US]

13. I'm so sorry to hear this. My heart is with her and please take care of yourself 💕

[gademocrat7]

14. Sending healing hugs

and prayers. Take care.

[diehardblue]

15. I am sending positive vibes and thoughts of strength.

[marked50]

16. Wishing your Mother, you, and the rest of your family the best.

[Karadeniz]

17. Weve been through this recently...sister in law lasted two days. She was a

fabulous sister and silaw, but her time had run out. Thank goodness the lack of oxygen kept her knocked out so she wasn't so aware of struggling to breathe. You get to the point where you are just glad for a lack of discomfort or suffering. My husband reached the same point with his first wife. Death can be a desired release. Still, it's so difficult to lose a parent....