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Oopsie Daisy

(6,670 posts)
Sat Aug 2, 2025, 09:18 AM Aug 2025

Does your current (or most recent) spouse or partner share ALL of your political views?

Discussion topic: Could you ever see yourself in a politically "mixed-marriage" wherein your spouse or committed partner is a member of the GOP or full-on MAGA? Or would that be legitimate grounds for divorce? --- Or... if you are currently in a politically mixed marriage, how do you make it work?


28 votes, 2 passes | Time left: Unlimited
Spouse/partner is apolitical.
1 (4%)
Spouse/partner is more liberal.
2 (7%)
Spouse/partner shares my views exactly.
18 (64%)
Spouse/partner is more conservative.
4 (14%)
I don't have a spouse or partner.
3 (11%)
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Does your current (or most recent) spouse or partner share ALL of your political views? (Original Post) Oopsie Daisy Aug 2025 OP
We share almost identical views except TheFarseer Aug 2025 #1
We have the same views Mossfern Aug 2025 #2
Oh lord... I feel for you. My husband is the same way. I have to leave the room Oopsie Daisy Aug 2025 #5
We're very close but not identical. yardwork Aug 2025 #3
Identical liberal Democrats Ritabert Aug 2025 #4
I am slightly more to the Left. JanMichael Aug 2025 #6
It depends on the issue Shrek Aug 2025 #7
My wife is slightly more moderate than I am bottomofthehill Aug 2025 #8
Share about 95% . Try to keep each other Ninga Aug 2025 #9
You need a selection for ..... MOST. He does not share ALL. Trueblue1968 Aug 2025 #10
Thanks. Next time. Oopsie Daisy Aug 2025 #11
This message was self-deleted by its author jfz9580m Aug 2025 #12
Most. He has different interests than I do, so some of his views are different. LeftInTX Aug 2025 #13
My spouse won't discuss their political leanings with me IzzaNuDay Aug 2025 #14

TheFarseer

(9,770 posts)
1. We share almost identical views except
Sat Aug 2, 2025, 09:22 AM
Aug 2025

She’s pro-life. I have the old Howard Dean position on it. We have agreed to just not talk about it.

Mossfern

(4,716 posts)
2. We have the same views
Sat Aug 2, 2025, 09:38 AM
Aug 2025

However he likes to shout at the TV, and I get out and do things although my health issues have had curtailed that.
Very frustrating. My husband will get very angry reading or watching the news - I tell him "You're really pissed off- what are you going to do about it?"

Oopsie Daisy

(6,670 posts)
5. Oh lord... I feel for you. My husband is the same way. I have to leave the room
Sat Aug 2, 2025, 09:52 AM
Aug 2025

... or find something else to do in another part of the house.

Shrek

(4,428 posts)
7. It depends on the issue
Sat Aug 2, 2025, 10:02 AM
Aug 2025

Aligned on most things but on others we diverge, and not always on the same axis.

bottomofthehill

(9,391 posts)
8. My wife is slightly more moderate than I am
Sat Aug 2, 2025, 10:04 AM
Aug 2025

She is a normal old North East urban Democrat. Oddly, on this board, I would be thought of as a right wing nut and she would be a Neanderthal, reality, she is slightly to the left of the American public and I am a little further left than she is and DU is way left.

Ninga

(9,012 posts)
9. Share about 95% . Try to keep each other
Sat Aug 2, 2025, 11:00 AM
Aug 2025

grounded and from climbing the tree. Love
my Mr Ninga to bits…

Oopsie Daisy

(6,670 posts)
11. Thanks. Next time.
Sat Aug 2, 2025, 01:29 PM
Aug 2025

I take your point, but fortunately this is just a fun poll, for giggles and laughs, and as a vehicle for discussion... not a scientific poll. Precision isn't completely necessary.

Response to Oopsie Daisy (Original post)

IzzaNuDay

(1,296 posts)
14. My spouse won't discuss their political leanings with me
Sat Aug 9, 2025, 04:32 AM
Aug 2025

I don’t have a clue how they vote. They will shut down if I ask a question. After decades of marriage, IDGAF.

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