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CTyankee

(66,138 posts)
Sat May 10, 2025, 02:45 PM Saturday

What can I do with my mother's mink stole from the 1960s-early 60s??

It's in an off-season clothes closet and I ran across it yesterday, having forgotten I still had it.

It is silk lined and embossed with her initials. I feel as if I have been entrusted with it in memory of her. I do have a Goodwill store near me and I'm thinking of putting in there but would anybody even want it?

If it has any value I could give it to my housekeeper who might find a buyer or cut it up and fashion it in some way.

You input would be greatly appreciated.

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What can I do with my mother's mink stole from the 1960s-early 60s?? (Original Post) CTyankee Saturday OP
Give it a proper burial? Marcuse Saturday #1
This is the best suggestion JoseBalow Saturday #12
That was the first thing that I thought of too. Bury it really deep to delay methane emissions for a while. FadedMullet Saturday #26
kitty bed quaint Saturday #2
My sister took my mother's mgardener Saturday #3
Thanks. I'll check with my housekeeper next week and if she doesn't want it I'll take it Goodwill. CTyankee Saturday #5
Some people buy them because they like vintage clothing, so Goodwill might be a good place to donate. Vinca Saturday #4
I doubt that it was by a top designer, but your point is well taken. CTyankee Saturday #7
Some ideas... Tanuki Saturday #6
I like the teddy bears as a "cherished memory" ! Hekate Yesterday #34
Keep it, as 'memory.' elleng Saturday #8
I'm going to give my grandkids a crack at it. CTyankee Saturday #13
When my great-aunt died somehow I ended up yorkster Saturday #9
First, check that it's in usable shape. LisaM Saturday #10
Yes, it is in fine shape. CTyankee Saturday #11
Donate it to a local community theater. They will add it to costume department. FloridaBlues Saturday #14
As already suggested in posts 10 and 14, give it to an amateur theater group... 3catwoman3 Saturday #15
I doubt Yale Drama School would want/need it but I have a another New Haven college I could give it to.... CTyankee Saturday #16
Give it to your housekeeper. She could sell it online. applegrove Saturday #17
I donated all of my old clothes (from Grandma and others in the past) to a local clothing shop that outfitted SWBTATTReg Saturday #18
Not sure you can see these things as anything but a relic from past practices of wearing an animal's skin and fur that CTyankee Saturday #20
And you think that the things I had donated somehow were actually fur? What gave you that idea? My grandma was SWBTATTReg Saturday #23
Sorry, I mistakenly thought your post somehow had that connection to fur and that was what I had on my mind when I CTyankee Saturday #30
Release it back into the wild Bayard Saturday #19
I actually could do that but I wouldn't since it was my mother's. CTyankee Saturday #21
.... Bayard Saturday #22
I have a friend who collects and wears them. Phoenix61 Saturday #24
Donate it to an animal shelter. flvegan Saturday #25
AWW, newborn kittens in mink fur! Sweet image! I love it! CTyankee Saturday #31
Offer it to a high school drama club. NT mahatmakanejeeves Saturday #27
Agreedf. soldierant Saturday #32
Sell it to a vintage kacekwl Saturday #28
We have an actual store not far from here. underpants Saturday #29
my cousin gave me a really nice stole. too pretty. i ebayed it. i got pelts from an estate sale(bag of faces-cat toys) pansypoo53219 Yesterday #33
I like Tanuki's teddy bear idea best of all 💕 Hekate Yesterday #35

FadedMullet

(125 posts)
26. That was the first thing that I thought of too. Bury it really deep to delay methane emissions for a while.
Sat May 10, 2025, 05:47 PM
Saturday

CTyankee

(66,138 posts)
5. Thanks. I'll check with my housekeeper next week and if she doesn't want it I'll take it Goodwill.
Sat May 10, 2025, 02:54 PM
Saturday

Vinca

(52,023 posts)
4. Some people buy them because they like vintage clothing, so Goodwill might be a good place to donate.
Sat May 10, 2025, 02:52 PM
Saturday

If it happens to be by a top designer, it might be worth selling at auction or to a dealer. When I was selling antiques and collectibles, I did buy a designer mink jacket once at a thrift shop and resold it for several hundred dollars.

CTyankee

(66,138 posts)
7. I doubt that it was by a top designer, but your point is well taken.
Sat May 10, 2025, 02:55 PM
Saturday

I'll take it to Goodwill.

Tanuki

(15,865 posts)
6. Some ideas...
Sat May 10, 2025, 02:54 PM
Saturday
https://restyleyourfur.com/blogs/news/the-timeless-appeal-of-1950s-mink-stoles-transforming-vintage-elegance-into-modern-chic


..."If wearing fur isn’t your style, mink stoles can be transformed into a variety of accessories. Imagine the luxury of a mink headband, handbag, scarf or earmuffs—each piece adding a touch of vintage glamour to your everyday look.
Mink stoles can also be repurposed into home accessories like pillows, bringing warmth and texture into your living space.

One of the most popular non-wearable items we create from mink stoles are cuddly teddy bears. These bears are not just adorable but also serve as a cherished keepsake, perfect for passing down through generations."...(more)

CTyankee

(66,138 posts)
13. I'm going to give my grandkids a crack at it.
Sat May 10, 2025, 03:38 PM
Saturday

I have a transitioning grandchild in L.A. and she might want it but she is big and this thing is small. My 3 other granddaughters are smaller but I wonder if they would want to wear fur.

yorkster

(3,041 posts)
9. When my great-aunt died somehow I ended up
Sat May 10, 2025, 03:02 PM
Saturday

with her mink stole. This was mid 70s iirc.
Never knew what to do with it, until one bitterly cold night a few years later when I was going to a upscale dinner with friends. This was a rare occurrence. I had a long winter coat and I wore the stole over the coat. I was warm as toast .
Never wore it again and I think I finally gave it to Goodwill.

LisaM

(29,171 posts)
10. First, check that it's in usable shape.
Sat May 10, 2025, 03:11 PM
Saturday

A lot of times, they aren't. But if it is, I would give it to a theatre department or someone who does drag so it can have a second life without someone needing to buy real fur.

CTyankee

(66,138 posts)
11. Yes, it is in fine shape.
Sat May 10, 2025, 03:26 PM
Saturday

Since I lost my hairdresser, I don't have my contact with the gay community in New Haven.

FloridaBlues

(4,544 posts)
14. Donate it to a local community theater. They will add it to costume department.
Sat May 10, 2025, 03:42 PM
Saturday

I have one from my mother as well and that’s what I am doing. I also have worn it in several theater productions I act with.

3catwoman3

(26,651 posts)
15. As already suggested in posts 10 and 14, give it to an amateur theater group...
Sat May 10, 2025, 03:45 PM
Saturday

...or theater department of a college.

CTyankee

(66,138 posts)
16. I doubt Yale Drama School would want/need it but I have a another New Haven college I could give it to....
Sat May 10, 2025, 03:51 PM
Saturday

I got my Master's in Liberal Studies at Albertus Magnus College, a small liberal arts Catholic school here in New Haven. I am still in contact with my English Lit professor there (I went back to school in my late 60s for the advanced degree since they had a Liberal Studies program I liked very much).

SWBTATTReg

(25,244 posts)
18. I donated all of my old clothes (from Grandma and others in the past) to a local clothing shop that outfitted
Sat May 10, 2025, 04:14 PM
Saturday

people (they purchased) outfits for events, Halloween, etc. That way, you keep recycling these things, and keeping their energies/memories in the world alive still. People do actually still buy these things too. There's a small segment of the population that does value these things.

CTyankee

(66,138 posts)
20. Not sure you can see these things as anything but a relic from past practices of wearing an animal's skin and fur that
Sat May 10, 2025, 04:18 PM
Saturday

was valued and killed for its fur. They carry a bad message in today's woke population.

SWBTATTReg

(25,244 posts)
23. And you think that the things I had donated somehow were actually fur? What gave you that idea? My grandma was
Sat May 10, 2025, 04:25 PM
Saturday

poor and couldn't afford such things.

CTyankee

(66,138 posts)
30. Sorry, I mistakenly thought your post somehow had that connection to fur and that was what I had on my mind when I
Sat May 10, 2025, 07:57 PM
Saturday

made the post. You donated items that held a precious memory of you beloved grandmother. I need to apologize for my mistake.

Phoenix61

(18,332 posts)
24. I have a friend who collects and wears them.
Sat May 10, 2025, 05:07 PM
Saturday

She’d never buy a new one but no reason to send wearable clothing to the landfill.

flvegan

(64,962 posts)
25. Donate it to an animal shelter.
Sat May 10, 2025, 05:39 PM
Saturday

It would go a long way making some newborn kittens very happy, I'll bet.

Or, if it brings you fond memories of your mom, just keep it.

soldierant

(8,483 posts)
32. Agreedf.
Sat May 10, 2025, 09:39 PM
Saturday

I worked doe a few year as the person in charge of costumes on a small state college Theater Departmen. I am sure either a college or high school club or departmen would be thrilled.

pansypoo53219

(22,201 posts)
33. my cousin gave me a really nice stole. too pretty. i ebayed it. i got pelts from an estate sale(bag of faces-cat toys)
Sun May 11, 2025, 02:00 AM
Yesterday

i grow the best cat nip + made fresh cat nip toys. it even gets me woozy.

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