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Aristus

(71,827 posts)
Fri Jan 30, 2026, 08:42 PM 11 hrs ago

Friday Night Vodka Buzz. Ask me anything.

Two shots to get the party started. Now, a Mind Eraser. Club soda poured slowly over vodka, poured slowly over Kahlua. No mixing. Yummy, and interesting. But I like mixed drinks better than layered drinks.

Had a monumentally awful day in clinic. No bad patients, no bad cases, just my vaunted time management plans shot to hell the minute we opened. The doofuses in the call center dumped four full physical exams on my schedule, none of them in the slots that make time management easy. My first patient was late, needed an interpreter, and ran into some insurance problems during registration. So I was an hour behind schedule by the time my first visit started.

The day only went downhill from there.

I need a drink. Fortunately, I have one. Hope you do too. Looking forward to a relaxing weekend.

I love you all…

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Friday Night Vodka Buzz. Ask me anything. (Original Post) Aristus 11 hrs ago OP
Appreciate the reality and your focus. Better for it. cachukis 11 hrs ago #1
Welcome! Aristus 10 hrs ago #2
I am drinking champagne and still sober unfortunately kimbutgar 10 hrs ago #3
I'm trying, I'm trying... Aristus 10 hrs ago #5
Mind eraser. During this chaos, I need one of those every day. surfered 10 hrs ago #4
Without question. Aristus 10 hrs ago #6
"I wish we could have a decade eraser." 3catwoman3 9 hrs ago #9
I can't believe how much of my life has been taken up with this bullshit. Aristus 9 hrs ago #10
Eight years of Bush Light was more than enough... 3catwoman3 9 hrs ago #13
I have a small sample bottle of mead Marthe48 9 hrs ago #7
I occasionally buy a bottle of mead. I keep it chilled. Aristus 9 hrs ago #11
I dreaded those "behind before you even start" days. 3catwoman3 9 hrs ago #8
The things the two of us have had to deal with... Aristus 9 hrs ago #12
I'm sure there are. I'm also sure that if you and I were ever... 3catwoman3 9 hrs ago #14
That's sweet. Aristus 9 hrs ago #15
I'm curious Skittles 8 hrs ago #16
No. Aristus 7 hrs ago #17

kimbutgar

(26,961 posts)
3. I am drinking champagne and still sober unfortunately
Fri Jan 30, 2026, 09:02 PM
10 hrs ago

Everyday seems like a drunken hangover nowadays!

We need To escape the craziness and mayhem we are experiencing now by drinking more!

Aristus

(71,827 posts)
6. Without question.
Fri Jan 30, 2026, 09:16 PM
10 hrs ago

I wish we could have a decade eraser. Send us back to 2016 and try again…

Aristus

(71,827 posts)
10. I can't believe how much of my life has been taken up with this bullshit.
Fri Jan 30, 2026, 10:08 PM
9 hrs ago

As if eight years of Dubyah wasn’t enough.

3catwoman3

(28,787 posts)
13. Eight years of Bush Light was more than enough...
Fri Jan 30, 2026, 10:13 PM
9 hrs ago

...and we didn't get a break from TSF during President Biden's 4 years because the POS was in the news every damned day, whining about one thing or another.

It's exhausting. And we know chronic stress is not good for our health, mental or physical.

Marthe48

(22,817 posts)
7. I have a small sample bottle of mead
Fri Jan 30, 2026, 09:53 PM
9 hrs ago

My daughter brought it from Ireland last year. I'm thinking of drinking it this weekend. Should I chill it? Or leave it at room temperature? heat it up?

I was listening to history lectures about early Europeans drinking mead, but the lectures focus more on drinking mead before during and after battle, with no instructions on prep.

Thank you for any tips

Rest up for round 3 million!



3catwoman3

(28,787 posts)
8. I dreaded those "behind before you even start" days.
Fri Jan 30, 2026, 09:56 PM
9 hrs ago

During the summer, the peds office would be crazy busy with school, sports, and camp physicals. Instead of our day starting at 9:00 AM as it did the rest of the year, the first patient would be booked for 8:30 to get in a few extra time slots across our 3 locations. The problem with that was that the 8:30 patient would typically show up AT 8:30, and not usually be ready to be examined until at least 8:50, so I'd be playing catch up all day.

For many years, the practice did not schedule patients with particular providers, just into open time slots. Whoever got done first would go to the next room, and you never knew who or what you'd be seeing. Each of our 3 locations would have 2 of us working, and did what they called "3 across scheduling" - 3 patients in each time slot, with the presumption that at least one of the appointments would be a quickie. That was almost never true, and would be another reason I'd almost always be behind. If you schedule 3 patients at 9:00, for sure one of them is not going to be seen at 9:00. I have no idea why they did this, it sucked, and I was happy when they gave it up and went to a dedicated schedule.

Not a coffee drinker, so I wouldn't care for a Mind Eraser, but I do like the name.

Aristus

(71,827 posts)
12. The things the two of us have had to deal with...
Fri Jan 30, 2026, 10:11 PM
9 hrs ago


Are there support groups for burned-out medical providers?

3catwoman3

(28,787 posts)
14. I'm sure there are. I'm also sure that if you and I were ever...
Fri Jan 30, 2026, 10:15 PM
9 hrs ago

...to meet in person, we could talk for hours and hours.

I consider you a friend.

Aristus

(71,827 posts)
15. That's sweet.
Fri Jan 30, 2026, 10:23 PM
9 hrs ago


I have such tremendous respect for you and the things you have done in your career in health.

Skittles

(170,055 posts)
16. I'm curious
Fri Jan 30, 2026, 11:43 PM
8 hrs ago

Ms. O'Hara was situs inversus, did you ever know a patient with that condition?

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