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Tomconroy

(7,611 posts)
6. If you go to assisted living try to find one that is nonprofit.
Mon Dec 11, 2023, 02:53 PM
Dec 2023

The nonprofits are often run by churches or organizations like the masons but will often take anyone.
Most for profit assisted living places are owned now by hedge funds that relentlessly raise rents every year and charge high prices for services they determine you need. If you run out of money you will end up on the streets or at least on Medicaid and a nursing home.
Unless you can afford the continuing care facilities there aren't a lot of good choices. I suspect many will have to go the Medicaid route so it's probably wise to do some planning with an elder law attorney five years in advance, at least. Medicaid rules are complicated and vary between states.
This issue is going to hit hit the baby boom generation like a ton of bricks.
There is a continuing care facility here near New Haven called Whitney Center. People come from all over the northeast to live it it. It was founded as a retirement home for Yale faculty and is a nonprofit. Living facilities vary from studio apartment to multi bedroom apartments as large as my house. Prices vary depending on the size of the apartment. If you can afford it, it's great. It's also the facility that democrats go to. There's another luxe one in the area for Republicans. I'm not joking.


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Marking. I have a MiL that might benefit from a community like that. ms liberty Dec 2023 #1
Well, I'm 75, divorced, and still living independently. However, I did sell my condo and I now rent a small apartment.. Joinfortmill Dec 2023 #2
In another life snowybirdie Dec 2023 #3
You don't say whether you have children - either nearby or far away. marybourg Dec 2023 #4
My aunt and uncle tried two other retirement homes before they found one they considered OK. eppur_se_muova Dec 2023 #5
If you go to assisted living try to find one that is nonprofit. Tomconroy Dec 2023 #6
The OP doesn't seem to need assisted living yet. Independent Living marybourg Dec 2023 #7
You can be one fall away from disaster. I went Tomconroy Dec 2023 #8
True, but nobody goes into assisted living before they need the assistance. marybourg Dec 2023 #9
I think you are confused about the terms you are using. Tomconroy Dec 2023 #10
No, I'm not. As I said upthread, I'm in my early 80's marybourg Dec 2023 #11
I'm not going to argue with you. Tomconroy Dec 2023 #12
Your description matches my experience with my mom. yardwork Jan 2024 #15
Yes, that the usual path. Assisted living is not for the well. marybourg Jan 2024 #16
It worked fairly well. COVID caused isolation and issues yardwork Jan 2024 #18
This wouldn't work for everyone.... anciano Dec 2023 #13
I am 75 years old, still living on my own, and in excellent health. PoindexterOglethorpe Dec 2023 #14
My MIL, who is 89, is moving to a senior apartment complex near us. yardwork Jan 2024 #17
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