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C Moon

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15. My wife and I helped an elderly man next door to us when we lived in Pasadena.
Mon Feb 25, 2019, 07:41 PM
Feb 2019

I was working on my computer on a hot afternoon. I kept hearing a faint voice outside, but was focused on my work and thought it was the neighbors talking. Then I heard that voice calling my landlord's name and was reassured it was nothing. A few minutes later, I heard the voice say, "Help..."

I jumped up; went outside and looked over the fence. There was the elderly neighbor lying in the sun next to the pool. I called to him that I was calling 911; I ran inside, and dialed 911 (I can't be in extreme heat, myself). My wife came home at that time, and climbed the fence to help the guy. She moved him into the shade, and at his instructions, she went inside and got his diabetes meds.

The paramedics showed up, I showed them the gate. They had to break a lock to get in the gate. At that point, a guy on the other side of his house, came over and told us to go home, that he would take care of it (I guess the were friends).

Our landlord said she'd heard him calling his name, but ignored him because she said he was always complaining about her landscaping.

In the days /weeks that followed, we never got as much as a wave from the old man—let alone a thank you.

Don't know why I shared that, but it does illustrate the dangers of falling. He's lucky he didn't fall into his pool.

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Sidewalks, Autos, Shopping Centers, black asphalt, wet grass, crutches and canes Tetrachloride Feb 2019 #1
I don't need environmental hazards to fall... nocoincidences Feb 2019 #2
My last two falls Ilsa Feb 2019 #3
Putting on your underwear or pants can be a killer... mitch96 Feb 2019 #4
Amen to that. Duppers Feb 2019 #5
Grab Bars cyclonefence Feb 2019 #6
It's inevitable Cartoonist Feb 2019 #7
But do you get PI every day?? nt mitch96 Feb 2019 #20
Every time I see a circle. nt Cartoonist Feb 2019 #22
Ahhh People that talk in circles shall someday be known as big wheels!! mitch96 Feb 2019 #24
Thanks Elleng DeeDeeNY Feb 2019 #8
My mother has Rebl2 Feb 2019 #9
Vertigo is now a fact of life for me... jimmil Feb 2019 #10
I'm starting to get that also.. Along with my friend tinnitus.. mitch96 Feb 2019 #21
I recently got tripped by an out of control baby stroller Submariner Feb 2019 #11
My mom died from complications of a fall dflprincess Feb 2019 #12
The worst part of getting older is the loss of my reflexes... Ferrets are Cool Feb 2019 #13
My best advice is to slow down and wear sturdy shoes! mtngirl47 Feb 2019 #14
My wife and I helped an elderly man next door to us when we lived in Pasadena. C Moon Feb 2019 #15
Thank you from US, at least. elleng Feb 2019 #16
:) C Moon Feb 2019 #18
If you can, stand while dressing instead of sitting DavidDvorkin Feb 2019 #17
That's a GREAT idea!! mitch96 Feb 2019 #23
"I bought a wobble board" mitch96 Feb 2019 #27
You're welcome! DavidDvorkin Feb 2019 #28
Proactively, I started using a Hurry-cane to make sure I don't fall, which would be very awkward No Vested Interest Feb 2019 #19
My dogs are a danger! Tracer Feb 2019 #25
Pretend like you're holding a very-full cup of hot coffee when walking or climbing stairs. SaintLouisBlues Feb 2019 #26
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