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srobertss

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16. People always ask me what I'm doing with my time

Reply to demosincebirth (Reply #9)

Sat Jul 20, 2019, 05:41 PM

Jul 2019

I half apologetically, half proudly say, “nothing”. Of course “nothing” includes gardening, cooking, knitting, etc. But a lot of people wonder why I don’t travel more. I used to be a good traveler and thought I would do a lot when I retired, but now it feels like a waste of time. In the words of Rumi, as translated by Coleman Barks, “All the news we hear is full of grief for the future. But the real news inside us is there’s no news at all.” I’m spending my time paying attention to the real news inside me. That takes a lot of nothing.

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I've been retired for almost one year now [View all] bearfan454 Jul 2019 OP

Thing about retirement... safeinOhio Jul 2019 #1

You're not kidding bearfan454 Jul 2019 #7

When my husband retired from teaching Ohiogal Jul 2019 #2

I love my retirement. Polly Hennessey Jul 2019 #3

Having 7 Saturdays each week is pretty cool! NRaleighLiberal Jul 2019 #4

June 30 was the second anniversary of my last day at work calguy Jul 2019 #5

Retirement happiness surprised me srobertss Jul 2019 #6

Retiring, when I did, was one of the smartest things I've ever done Siwsan Jul 2019 #8

Your life sounds wonderful. Good for you! kstewart33 Jul 2019 #13

I do well doing nothing. Is that a positive or a negative? demosincebirth Jul 2019 #9

People always ask me what I'm doing with my time srobertss Jul 2019 #16

I thought I'd want to travel more too, but I don't. SunSeeker Jul 2019 #19

Right there with you two Bradshaw3 Jul 2019 #32

Yes, the best is just hanging out with folks you love in local spots you love. SunSeeker Jul 2019 #36

That's interesting, because I always thought I'd want to travel more, too. But I'm Nay Jul 2019 #37

I've been retired about seven years. Mr.Bill Jul 2019 #10

Thank you! MLAA Jul 2019 #21

The pleasure is all mine. Mr.Bill Jul 2019 #23

After working my arse off in the corporate world for 35 years and raising a family, OMGWTF Jul 2019 #11

It's six years for me after BHDem53 Jul 2019 #12

30 days to go for me Fiendish Thingy Jul 2019 #14

Looking forward to it extvbroadcaster Jul 2019 #15

My wife's been after me retire like her. I told her she's not retired, she's just working for free. marble falls Jul 2019 #17

Yep, retirement doesn't mean sitting around. Be sure to guard your time in retirement. SunSeeker Jul 2019 #18

me too! mike_c Jul 2019 #20

My biggest accomplishment since I retired was spending time exercising to get really fit. MLAA Jul 2019 #22

Me and my 14 year old dog go for walks every day bearfan454 Jul 2019 #24

Daisy sounds like a very lucky girl! MLAA Jul 2019 #38

It's been 20 years. trof Jul 2019 #25

Same here demosincebirth Aug 2019 #39

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We are three years in and loving it. LakeArenal Jul 2019 #28

I loved reading this thread and I look forward to the day when I can join you!!! Nt spooky3 Jul 2019 #29

Nine years and loving it marigold20 Jul 2019 #30

Somedays I wonder how Runningdawg Jul 2019 #31

When I was a young longhair all I wanted was to not work, get high and listen to music Bradshaw3 Jul 2019 #33

Three years this summer and totally enjoying retirement. Golden Raisin Jul 2019 #34

I have never understood people who PoindexterOglethorpe Jul 2019 #35