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Dark n Stormy Knight

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Tue Jan 19, 2021, 05:35 PM Jan 2021

Questions on Compassionate Friends & Hospice grief counseling [View all]

Last edited Tue Jan 19, 2021, 07:49 PM - Edit history (1)

Does anyone have experience with or direct knowledge of the Compassionate Friends group for bereaved parents?

Not sure she would use it, but I'm wondering whether to recommend it to my mother. (As I've posted about before) my brother died tragically in an accident the day after Christmas, just two months after my father died of pancreatic cancer.

Also, DUer SheltieLover mentioned that Hospice organizations offer grief counseling free if charge. Two questions:

I know hospice s a business, so I can't imagine they could offer free support to just anyone. So, would I, say, need to use the Hospice organization that provided my Dad's care? (That one isn't near me, though I assume it wouldn't be in person during pandemic.)

Would they be appropriate for someone not receptive to religion-based counseling?

I'd appreciate help with any of these questions. 💜

On edit: I should say that ages ago when I was in college I did house-cleaning for a family who had lost their 5yo daughter in a fire caused by a toy. Tragic. That was where I first heard about Compassionate Friends.

At least, I think so. I misremembered that this woman had started the group, but my recent research told me that was wrong. So, I had to question my memory that it was instrumental in helping that family through their grief. Also, even if true, I'm curious if the group has changed, for better or for worse.

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This message was self-deleted by its author Chin music Jan 2021 #1
Thank you. Dark n Stormy Knight Jan 2021 #9
This message was self-deleted by its author Chin music Jan 2021 #12
Dark n Stormy Knight...re: groups to help with grieving... Upthevibe Jan 2021 #2
So sorry to hear of your loss, Up SheltieLover Jan 2021 #4
Thank you, Up. I'll look for that later on. Dark n Stormy Knight Jan 2021 #5
Therapists, generally, are respectful of spiritual preferences SheltieLover Jan 2021 #3
Hey, Sheltie. Thanks for all the info & suggestions you've shared. Dark n Stormy Knight Jan 2021 #7
Yw, Dark! SheltieLover Jan 2021 #10
Funny you should mention the gratitude journal. Dark n Stormy Knight Jan 2021 #13
Yaaaaay! SheltieLover Jan 2021 #14
Well, this is what happens when the insomnia means not just Dark n Stormy Knight Jan 2021 #22
Compassionate Friends website has stories from other bereaved parents Kittycow Jan 2021 #6
Thanks for sharing that, Kitty. Dark n Stormy Knight Jan 2021 #8
It's damn rough, that's for sure. Kittycow Jan 2021 #15
So sorry to hear of your loss, Kitty! SheltieLover Jan 2021 #11
You're welcome :) Kittycow Jan 2021 #16
I know exactly what you mean from 1st hand experience SheltieLover Jan 2021 #17
... Kittycow Jan 2021 #18
... SheltieLover Jan 2021 #19
You guys are the best Kittycow Jan 2021 #20
What you said, Kitty! SheltieLover Jan 2021 #21
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